‘What did Daddy do in the Great War?’
‘What did Daddy do in the Great War?’ This is undoubtedly a question little Gertie asked her mother, Gertrude, after the war. Gertie’s probing would have met stony silence. After all, a British army firing squad had executed her father, Private Harry Farr, at dawn on 18 October 1916. Even though Farr had suffered from shell shock and was hospitalised for five months, he was still sentenced to death for cowardice after refusing to return to his battalion. ‘I cannot stand it,’ he lamented. Facing the firing squad, a defiant Farr refused to wear a blindfold. Farr’s family also became unwitting victims, carrying the stigma of the ‘coward’ label, suffering deep shame, as well as experiencing financial hardship after his execution. When Gertrude visited the post office in 1916, she was told: 'We don't give pensions to the widows of cowards.' She and her children were left destitute. Harry’s father, who keenly felt the family’s shame would never speak his son’s na...